From: Brimstone on


"Conor" <conor(a)gmx.co.uk> wrote in message
news:hnqm54$ue2$1(a)news.eternal-september.org...
> On 17/03/2010 12:05, ChelseaTractorMan wrote:
>> On Wed, 17 Mar 2010 11:42:52 +0000, Conor<conor(a)gmx.co.uk> wrote:
>>
>>> I can walk about 1/2 mile without pain normally. If I'm carrying
>>> anything, even a light 2kg bag, that reduces to about 50ft.
>>
>
>> this is back pain?
>
> No. Its pain down both legs, across my hips but the cause is in my lumbar.
>
>> If it is and there isn't a rock solid diagnosis
>> that it cannot be fixed (or is being fixed) try an osteopath If you
>> have not already), they can often make quite a difference to these
>> things, could make it half as bad or even totally inder control.
>
> There is a rock solid diagnosis. Basically because I've already had the
> two discs below the one thats now failed operated on, its inoperable. In
> the words of the neurosurgeon I saw 9 months ago: "Anyone who has a double
> open laminectomy at the age of 20 is going to have grief for the rest of
> their life."
>
There is only one effective form of pain relief.

http://vision.cs.princeton.edu/projects/OPTIMOL/main/revolver.jpg



From: NM on
On 17 Mar, 00:20, Conor <co...(a)gmx.co.uk> wrote:
> On 16/03/2010 13:11, Ret. wrote:
>
> > Exactly - and your passenger can see what is happening and will also
> > shut up until it is safe to resume the conversation.
>
> Bollocks.
>


He obviously hasn't met SWMBO.
From: NM on
On 17 Mar, 09:39, Adrian <toomany2...(a)gmail.com> wrote:
> NM <nik.mor...(a)mac.com> gurgled happily, sounding much like they were
> saying:
>
> >> >> What is *not* acceptable is for a carer/driver to park in a disabled
> >> >> bay, and then go shopping while leaving the actual badge holder sat
> >> >> in the car.
> >> > In what way is that not acceptable Kev? I quite often do it, I call
> >> > for his medication whilst he waits in the car, if that's the law it's
> >> > a stupid one, it takes him quite a time and a lot of effort to get in
> >> > or out of any car so making him have to get out for nothing is just
> >> > plain stupid.
> >> Because there's no benefit to HIM in you using a disabled parking bay
> >> in that situation. You're the only one who's doing any walking - and
> >> you don't need the blue badge.
> > He is in the car, he has a badge, he can have the car parked there if he
> > wants, I have no say in the matter.
>
> So who's driving the car?

Me. Not parking where he wants isn't worth it, he will moan and sulk
for the rest of the time out. I expect you would too if suddenly
without warning you were confined to a wheelchair and became dependant
on others to take you out of your house, the little things take on an
exaggerated importance to such people, I pander to him because I don't
want to cause him distress, my actions have resulted in exactly zero
other road users being denied their correct parking facilities.

It's not easy being a carer maybe you should look a little deeper into
what is actually going on instead appearances before you rush to
condem.
From: NM on
On 17 Mar, 10:10, Bod <bodro...(a)tiscali.co.uk> wrote:
> On 17/03/2010 10:05, Ret. wrote:
>
> > Bod wrote:
> >> On 17/03/2010 00:12, Conor wrote:
> >>> On 15/03/2010 22:26, Harry Bloomfield wrote:
> >>>> Conor submitted this idea :
> >>>>> However....
>
> >>>>> See me after I'd been stood up for 10-20 minutes or carrying
> >>>>> something and you'd realise just how bad I am but people like you
> >>>>> never do.
>
> >>>> Which has what relevance to my comments?
>
> >>>> I have no problem at all with anyone making full use of a blue
> >>>> badge, or the provision of cars for those who have a need for such.
> >>>> I do take exception to misuse and abuse of either or both
> >>>> provisions.
> >>> The point being made is that you're assuming its being abused based
> >>> on what you see as they get out which may not tell you the full
> >>> story.
> >> We have neighbours who use the badge regularly. They also play golf
> >> at least twice a week, which obviously means walking miles. They
> >> definitely do not need it. I assume they are not alone with taking
> >> advantage of the blue badge.
>
> > Have you considered a letter to the local authority blue badge
> > adminstrators - it could even be anonymous.
>
> > Kev
>
>  >
>  >
>
>   Yes, worth considering and that is what I should do. The trouble is,
> we get on really well with them and I would feel like a sort of snitch.
>
> I know, I know Kev, that I should not let that stop me from reporting
> them, but it is still a difficult thing to do. I would find it hard to
> look them in the face.
>
> Bod

Live and let live
From: ChelseaTractorMan on
On Wed, 17 Mar 2010 13:40:50 +0000, Conor <conor(a)gmx.co.uk> wrote:

>There is a rock solid diagnosis. Basically because I've already had the
>two discs below the one thats now failed operated on, its inoperable. In
>the words of the neurosurgeon I saw 9 months ago: "Anyone who has a
>double open laminectomy at the age of 20 is going to have grief for the
>rest of their life."

I have replied to your email address (I hope)
--
Mike. .. .
Gone beyond the ultimate driving machine.